tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-74960323408585493412024-03-12T21:14:08.030-07:00Blessings from God's wordThis blog is meant to simply share Bible studies from the Word of God and, Lord willing, be an encouragement to whoever reads them. Comments are welcomed.
Also, feel free to listen to the music player on the right hand column or search through the Bible study resources and links. Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.comBlogger66125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-3073126127003916302018-10-31T12:48:00.001-07:002018-11-01T17:24:45.215-07:00God is Love, BUT...<p dir="ltr">...God is also firm.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Too many people are neglecting what is in the scriptures and trying to justify sin or lifestyles that go against God's word, simply because God is love, but that doesn't mean that God accepts sin.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Too often we read or use a few scriptures that make us feel good and then omit everything else that we know about Jesus Christ, God and His word that might convict us.   Some have bowed down to modern trends and allowed themselves to be manipulated by their feelings, messages from any other teacher besides God and the Holy Spirit, and other gospels. Too many people are looking for a religion that is easy and makes us feel good. In the world, we are taught about a Christ that accepts everyone just the way they are, with no judgement on anything, and the prosperity gospel.  Instead of looking for a Church that teaches truth, many are on a quest to find a church that can satisfy their desire to worship God, but only in their own way.....or live the lifestyle that they want to live, regardless of how ungodly it really is and neglecting The Bible on the matter.  The Christian life is not a ‘buffet’ that you can compile your  perfect life from. There is no salvation in building your own religion or customizing Christ to suit your needs and wants, but the popular trend is to determine how you’d like to live your life and then to conform Christ to that lifestyle. One way it is done is by appealing to Christ’s infinite love and mercy, but we can’t just go around reciting that “God is Love” (1 John 4:8) and disregard the truth and seriousness of sin.  John 3:16 is a beloved verse and amazing to ponder.  In addition to this great and wonderful verse, there is a seriousness in God's actions.  The seriousness to judge<i>, righteously,</i> sin and to please God the Father with a sacrifice for <i>ALL</i> sin.  Only one could satisfy, totally, God.  The God-man, Jesus Christ.  A perfectly sinless man who willingly GAVE his life to please his Father in Heaven.  This is the seriousness of God's love.  Christ's sacrificial death wasn't just a show of infinite and holy love, however it certainly was a magnificent display of God's love,.  In addition to that love, many more attributes are.also involved, simultaneously.  God's judgement on sin means that God hates sin (Proverbs 6:16-19 ; Proverbs 8:13) and the perfect sacrifice, Jesus Christ, was needed to atone for all mankind.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">I've noticed a trend over the years that is growing greater among Christians and it is an unhinged focus on the Love of God.  At the base of this movement is the feeling that Christ was so loving and accepting of everyone, that He would never stand for any kind of exclusion or discrimination. This could not be further from the truth. Yes… it is true that Christ loves everyone and yes it is true that we should practice inclusion, but Christ was far from accepting behaviors that were not in accordance with His commandments or His word.  He didn’t come to this earth and just let people act however they wanted to act. “Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.” he said in Matthew 10 verse 34. He continues, “For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law. And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.”  How and why will “a man’s foes be they of his own household?” Because Christ asks Christians to take a stand and that stand is even more important than family.  In essence, He asks which side of the line you’re going to be on…and you prove which side you are on by “keeping the faith” and standing firm to God's word. Not everything is ok or accepted by God.  All are loved by Him, but our behaviors, if not in line with God's word, need to be repented of.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Does that sound all-inclusive and accepting of anything opposite God's word?</p>
<p dir="ltr">If Christ were walking the earth today preaching the same things He was preaching back in His day, people would be flying off the handle. He’d teach hard things, draw a line in the sand, tell people He loves them and ask them to repent. Maybe He would even get mad and turn over some tables, (or big, amplified speakers) (Matt 21:12-13) But then people would call Him a bigot, self-righteous, and un-accepting of others. People that oppose any part of God's word would just go their own way, and maybe start their own form of religion, just like when Christ was on earth and the disciples were offended and departed. The question you have to ask yourself is the same question He asked His disciples, “Will ye also go away”? (John 6:67)</p>
<p dir="ltr">People get mad at Bible Churches, it’s leaders, and individual Christians across the world for trying to defend some of the basic commandments.  Christians inside and outside of the Church label bible doctrine as old and outdated, and in the same breath say that firm Christians are taking things way to far or reading into scripture.  Consider the woman taken in adultery in John 8. The Savior did not condemn her… but he also didn’t condone what she did. He loved her and He forgave her, but He also meant what He said when He told her to “go and sin no more.” The forgiveness of Christ should not be misinterpreted for acceptance. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Another issue that the Bible clearly teaches about is the doctrine of seperation.  Being separate UNTO God, yet also APART from the world.  The absence of this is clearly seen in the worship wars.  The Bible tells the believer in 1 John 2:15  "Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him."  This is a powerful verse.  Love not the things of this world, and yet it seems that Christians love their way of worship and their preference for Christian music, more than obedience to God's prescription of worship, after all.....does the CREATION get a say in how his or her CREATOR is approached? </p>
<p dir="ltr">(To learn more about Biblical worship, visit my worship blog.  Link is in the right hand column.)</p>
<p dir="ltr">We should be loving and compassionate but we should never allow ourselves to believe that Christ just accepts our behaviors or lifestyles, just because we are His children.  That was never in the program. He’s always asked us to change, to repent, to get better, and to overcome the things that we struggle with. (Philippians 4:13 "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.)  Christians need to quit trying to align God's will with ours and let God's will rule and lead our lives. </p>
<p dir="ltr">It is also necessary and loving, and Biblical to follow Galations 6:1-2, which commands believers to "bear each other's burdens", or in other words, come along side a brother or sister and disciple them out of that fault and share the scriptures that refute that fault.  Sadly, that too, is seen as unloving and judgemental in today's world.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Many people are taking the equality and fairness argument to the extreme, assuming that Jesus is accepting of everything, especially if the word Christian is attached. It’s just not true according to the scriptures.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">James 1:5-6 "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.  But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed."</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-22061411903896189962018-09-28T04:46:00.001-07:002018-09-28T04:46:30.866-07:00Why I do not support John MacArthur and John Piper<p dir="ltr">This piece on John MacArthur is borrowed from the Salem Bible church's website, Salem NH.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A lot of popular speakers and teachers may use the same terminology that all other Christians use, however they are different. 1 thing I have noticed while listening to both, MacArthur and Piper and others is that they assign a different meaning to those terms. That is evidenced by the context in which it is used. It does not always make Biblical sense. I dont believe these men intentionally confuse biblical truth, however it is always wise to be aware of theses things and follow the biblical command of comparing things to scripture.</p>
<p dir="ltr">They may have also, at one time, been spot on accurate in some views, but have recently changed. Like in the case of MacArthur's view on music.<br></p>
<p dir="ltr">"Why<span style="font-size:1.50em;"><b> </b></span>I cannot support</p>
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<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he teaches Lordship salvation and says the gospel  I proclaim sends men to Hell</b><br>
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“Several who disagree with my views have said in print that the lordship controversy is a matter of eternal consequence. This means that whoever is wrong on this question is proclaiming a message that can send people to hell. On that we agree…. The two sides in this argument have distinctly different views of salvation.”   (<u>Gospel According to Jesus</u>, pg.xiv)</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he denies and ridicules the doctrine of the two natures of the believer</b><br>
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“The new nature is not added to the old nature but replaces it… Biblical terminology, then, does not say that a Christian has two different natures. He has but one nature, the new nature in Christ.” He also mockingly refers to the doctrine of the two natures of the believer as “spiritual schizophrenia.”  (Macarthur Commentary on Ephesians, chapter 13, p. 164)</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he promotes rock and roll music for the youth</b><br>
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The Resolved Conference which Macarthur promotes and at which he speaks incorporates worldly rock music, in direct contradiction to his earlier excellent statements against such music.  Go to <b>resolved.org</b>   and listen for yourself.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he is not a separatist</b><br>
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His speakers have included John Piper (extreme Calvinist; believer in sign gifts), R.C. Sproul (believes in baptismal regeneration), C.J. Mahaney (charismatic); etc.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because the speakers at the Shepherd’s  Conferences have included the country’s leading </b><b><i>critics</i></b><b>of dispensational theology</b><br>
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R.C. Sproul has been one of the nation’s leading critics of Dispensational theology and yet has been a featured speaker at Macarthur’s conferences. Many of his speakers are Reformed and decidedly anti-dispensational.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he minimizes the importance and value of dispensational theology and  disparages many of its tenets</b><br>
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Macarthur on Dispensationalism: “I will try to condense this because I don’t want to get too bogged down. Dispensationalism is a system. It is a system that got, sort of, out of control.”    He calls himself a “leaky dispensationalist” and does not like to use the term because he said it carries too much “baggage.”</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because his conferences include a confusing mixture of speakers who hold conflicting theological positions </b><br>
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(i.e. dispensational & anti-dispensational; premillennial & amillennial; charismatic & non-charismatic)</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he and his speakers promote a wide range of extreme Calvinistic views</b><br>
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Many of the speakers are Reformed Theologians who hold and promote their extreme Calvinistic views at the conferences.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because he is a neo evangelical in his approach to ministry</b><br>
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Most of his speakers refer to themselves as “conservative evangelicals” which is the new name for those who seek to distance themselves from fundamentalists. They are characterized by a lack of separation, a lowering of music standards, a disparaging of dispensationalism, and the acceptance of charismatic style worship.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b>Because his ministry is dividing fundamentalism and drawing young people in a wrong direction</b><br>
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In a day when churches are losing their young people to the world and worldly churches, we don’t need another “bridge-maker” to lure them away from Dispensationalism to Reformed Theology and away from traditional, sacred Christian music, to loud, raucous, “Christian” pop and rock, and away from reverential worship to a casual, worldly, charismatic style of worship.</p>
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<div align="center" ><blockquote><p dir="ltr">“Now I beseech you, brethren, mark them which cause divisions and offences contrary to the doctrine which ye have learned; and avoid them.” (Rom. 16:17)"<br>
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Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-24763720244421941002018-04-20T11:08:00.001-07:002021-04-27T12:11:29.537-07:00Waiting on the Lord, or becoming stagnant?<div align="left"><p dir="ltr">I've noticed a trend when Christians are waiting on an answer from the Lord. Christians (me included) always want an immediate answer from the Lord, whether yes or no, so we can move forward in whatever we think is the next step. A lot of times, claiming to be waiting on the Lord isn't always resting in His sovereignty, but rather stalling ourselves from moving forward and, as a result, facilitating a season of stagnation.<br></p><p dir="ltr"><br></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b><span style="font-size:1.40em;"><b>1. Do what you want to.</b></span></b><br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">One of the major inner conflicts Christians face when trying to discern God’s will is knowing the difference between God’s voice and their own desires.<br></p><p dir="ltr">“<i>Was that me or God?”</i><br></p><p dir="ltr">This is not only frustrating; it’s actually the wrong question. God sometimes leads us through our own desires and He’s the one who has placed those desires inside of us. So if there is something you're interested in and want to do, go do it.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Make a decision, take a risk, chase a dream.....yes, I said it, chase a dream. Keeping in mind, of course, God's sovereignty and God's commands. <br></p><p dir="ltr">You don’t necessarily need God’s permission to go to a farewell party, where others would be drinking, for a good friend or go on a vacation trip that you've always wanted to go on; you already have it. (permission, that is) He designed you and gave you the desires you have for a reason. Go explore them and find out what that reason is (Maybe it's just a time of enjoyment, maybe there's a bigger opportunity the Lord has planned), but grow in the Lord in that endeavor.....and seek opportunities to be a witness for Christ in where ever you go.<br></p><p dir="ltr"><br>
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<div align="left"><p dir="ltr"><b><span style="font-size:1.40em;"><b>2. Do what you </b></span></b><i><b><span style="font-size:1.40em;"><b>have </b></span></b></i><b><span style="font-size:1.40em;"><b>to.</b></span></b></p></div>
<div align="left"><p dir="ltr">The question really shouldn’t be, “What do you want to do with your life?” It should be, “What do you <i>have </i>to do with your life?” With the life God has given you.<br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">At the same time, what are you so passionate about or have always wanted to do that you feel you need to do? What has grabbed your heart and wont let go? Go do that.</p><p dir="ltr">You never know the opportunities God has for you, in whatever circumstances you choose to create.<br></p>
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<div align="left"><p dir="ltr">To magnify is to make something look bigger. Another way to say it is, do what makes much of God. Or to say it Biblically, “Whatever you do, do it all to the glory of God,” (I Cor. 10:31).<br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">This can be just about anything.<br></p><p dir="ltr">You can magnify God as a plumber, an accountant or an actor on Broadway. You can magnify God by going to the local college, to Harvard, or even by not going at all. And you can magnify God, not by trying to find the most perfect, God-ordained spouse, but by being faithful to whoever you choose and are allowed to marry.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Magnifying God is only sourced from having a humble heart of worship, and you can do that with just about any life decision you make.<br></p><p dir="ltr"><br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">This might be the most important one.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Many people believe they have a big calling, but they don’t want to do the hard work to get there and so, it's never pursued. Instead, they wait for God to drop a big opportunity into their laps, but following God's lead doesn’t mean you get to take a shortcut to where you think your calling might be.<br></p><p dir="ltr">You might want to be a CEO, or a successful artist, or a pastor. Those are all great desires, but none of those opportunities will just fall into your lap. They take time, experience and hard work, even if they are the Lord's will.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Our focus, though, should be doing the best at what's in front of us. For the most part, that’s what you can have immediate say in and you won't become stagnant.<br></p><p dir="ltr">You can’t make someone hire you as a CEO, but you can work hard to earn a management position, and you can seek wisdom from other business owners you know. You can’t make someone pay you for your art, but you can start working on your art form or get to know others in that art form. You can’t make a church hire you as their pastor, but you can disciple the people around you and ask your pastor to mentor you.<br></p><p dir="ltr"><br></p><p dir="ltr">Becoming stagnant is never a good idea for any Christian and following the Lord's will is always best, however it's not always easy to discern. Thankfully, God leads his children in His plan for them, regardless of their choices. Yes, because of poor choices, God's plan for his children can be delayed, but with a studious heart to His word, constant prayer, and Biblically practical habits, that "dream" can turn into Godly opportunities for God's plan. Dreams may be out of reach, that’s why they’re called dreams, but the next step is not. It’s right in front of you.</p>Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-31574855806898218412018-04-09T06:23:00.001-07:002018-09-15T22:27:49.583-07:00Harry Potter, Game of Thrones and the Bible. <p dir="ltr">There’s no denying that Harry Potter has taken the world by storm and continues to. It’s also quite clear that the Bible speaks out against sorcery and witchcraft. However, the vast majority of Bible believers have tried to find ways to defuse whatever the Bible says about sorcery by claiming that it has nothing to do with Harry Potter. </p>
<p dir="ltr">In Galatians 5:20, sorcery is listed as part of the “deeds of the flesh” along with things like idolatry, drunkenness, and fornication. “Sorcerers” are named in a similar list in Revelation 21:8. In Acts 19:19, those that practice magic brought their books and burned them when they turned to the Lord. In the Old Testament, Deuteronomy 18:10-14 WARNS the nation of Israel about the things they will face in their new land – like idolatry, child sacrifices, and witchcraft. 2 Chronicles 33:6 says that King Manasseh “practiced witchcraft, used divination, practiced sorcery and dealt with mediums and spiritists. He did much evil in the sight of the Lord, provoking Him to anger”. Clearly, in both the Old and New Testaments God was and still is against sorcery, witchcraft, and divination</p>
<p dir="ltr">So, how does that NOT apply to Harry Potter? The first claim is that the words mean something different than the kind of magic practiced in Harry Potter. Let’s look at the words. The Greek word (roughly transliterated) is pharmakeia. Yes, that’s where our word “pharmacy” comes from. Typically that leads people to say that this word is talking about drug abuse, thus it does not apply to HP. While I can see why they make that claim, those that translated practically every English version of the Bible seem to think that it had to do with more than drug abuse. Bauer's lexicon, a definitive lexicon on New Testament Greek, defines it as “sorcery, magic” and “magic arts” (Bauer 1049). Clearly it implies more than just simple drug use. However, even if it did, would Harry Potter’s use of potions pass this test?</p>
<p dir="ltr">What about “witchcraft”? This one is a little tougher since it isn’t used in the New Testament. The Enhanced Strong’s Lexicon defines it as one who practices “soothsaying or spiritism or magic or augury” (Strong #6049). So, witchcraft is a much broader term than sorcery. It includes magic, but it basically is about fortune telling and divining the future. These (sorcery and witchcraft) terms have everything to do with the kind of magic practiced in Harry Potter.</p>
<p dir="ltr">The next claim is that Harry Potter is just fiction and this kind of magic isn’t real, so there’s nothing wrong with HP. First, just because it is fictional doesn’t get us off the hook. Remember, sorcery was listed as a deed of the flesh along with idolatry and sexual immorality. I don’t know of any Christian that would make a case for watching movies where fornicators and homosexuals are the heroes. I have a hard time seeing how just saying “it’s fictional” makes it acceptable. Second, this magic may not exist as much today (although there are still practicing witches, warlocks, magicians, psychics, vampires and vampiresses, etc.), but it clearly isn’t a completely foreign idea. In Exodus 7, Pharaoh had sorcerers that would come out and try to match the miracles of God. This is why God felt it necessary to warn His people about these men in Deuteronomy 18. King Nebuchadnezzar also kept a staff of magicians, sorcerers, and conjurers in Daniel 2:2. While some may claim that people can’t work these acts today, it hasn’t stopped the wiccan “religion” from staying alive and well. It hasn’t disappeared completely, so saying that it is fiction or such a far-fetched idea that we need not worry about it, doesn’t work either. Let's not forget that Ephesians chapter 6 warns that the Christian battles against SPIRITUAL wickedness.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Game of Thrones is another popular show among Christians. Entertainment is not a neutral exercise. In every instance, it’s going to be a net positive or a net negative for the mental and spiritual welfare and inviting these messages, images, and ideas into the mind is detrimental. We are doing something that is active and purposeful, and it will either help or hurt in the end.</p>
<div align="left"><p dir="ltr">Music, movies, TV, games — we spend so much of our lives wrapped up in all this stuff because it <i>affects </i>us. There’s a reason why Americans still commit an inordinate amount of their income to cable bills, Netflix accounts, movie tickets, and video games. It’s important to us. Too important, clearly. But even in proper proportion, this is art, and art is a powerful thing. Art says something to us and about us. It drives us and transforms us. Art moves the heart and the mind in a particular direction. It can pull us closer to God or push us further away from our Creator, but whatever it does, it does <i>something</i>.<br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">So anytime we sit in front of the tube, we should ask: Am I progressing or regressing? Is this drawing me to God or away from Him? What am I getting out of this?<br></p><p dir="ltr">The opposing argument, however, says that entertainment is never a moral concern. A thing is pleasurable because it is, and it is because it is. Why worry about it? Why analyze it? Just sit back and let it sweep you away into its world. Be so utterly passive and lethargic that you don’t even stop to think about what you’re thinking about. Become like a vacant shell, filled in and emptied again according to the whims of these glowing screens. If the entertainment industry says, “here, stuff this in your brain, it’ll feel good,” just do it and take whatever they give you. Take it and go with the flow.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Game of Thrones has certainly benefited from this careless attitude immensely, although sometimes they can take it too far, even by their audience’s permissive standards. Occasionally, the debauchery on the show runs a bit ahead of Hollywood’s campaign of desensitization, and viewers are confronted with material that they aren’t quite numb enough to accept (yet).</p><p dir="ltr">No, it wasn’t real, it was a fantasy, but that’s the point. A choice was made to include this material into an entertainment show about dragons and guys with swords. So what was the point? Why did it need to be shown? What purpose did it serve? What value did it have? And from the viewer’s perspective, is there ever a good reason to watch a rape happen, even if it’s just pretend?<br></p><p dir="ltr"><br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">What was the point? Shock and spectacle.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Why did it need to be shown? It didn’t.<br></p><p dir="ltr">What purpose did it serve? Promotional tool.<br></p><p dir="ltr">What value did it have? None. Also, entertainment.<br></p><p dir="ltr"><br>
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</div><p dir="ltr">The arguments in defense of christians watching these show can be summarized as follows: The shows reveals the complexity of human nature and illustrates the ugliness of sin, therefore viewers can learn from it.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Seemingly clever rationalizations, but flimsy. Flimsy particularly because this could apply to literally everything that’s ever been filmed. By this line of reasoning, Christians should watch the bloodiest and most graphic imagery just to fully understand the realities of our imperfect existence.<br></p><p dir="ltr">Of course, the only thing worse than the “it shows what sin looks like” excuse is the “Christians shouldn’t hide from the culture” bit. And they’re correct. We shouldn’t hide. But we shouldn’t go along with it or follow its dictates or conform to it, either. (Romans 12:1-2) In this culture, lots of sins are considered fun, harmless, and entertaining. Do I need to actually commit them all, or watch someone commit them while I sit on my couch and cheer along, in order to not be guilty of “hiding”?</p><p dir="ltr">I mean, does anyone believe that the producers of the show choose to pepper it with non-stop nudity and sex in order to sharpen our moral sensibilities or to teach us something? Does <i>anyone</i> buy that? Is HBO filling the airwaves with graphic sex in order to show that man is fallen? They are indeed demonstrating that fact by putting this on TV, but is that their intent? Doubtful. Whatever their intent, should we participate in it? Should we indulge in it? Is it cool to sit down once a week to watch something that we know will involve graphic sex and stylized violence? If you wouldn’t want your spouse watching that garbage on the internet, is it alright as long as there’s a more intricate story and better acting surrounding it?</p><p dir="ltr">I’m not saying that Christians should only watch children’s cartoons. I’m not saying Christians should insulate themselves from the culture entirely, or relegate all of their viewing habits to Charlie Brown specials or veggietales. The Bible tells us to protect our purity of heart and mind, and if those exhortations don’t apply to shows like Game of Thrones and Harry Potter when and where <i>do</i> they apply? <br></p><p dir="ltr"><br></p><p dir="ltr">A simple illustration.</p><p dir="ltr"><span style="color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", Times, serif; font-size: 20px; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">Perhaps we should treat our brains and souls with the same respect we give a kitchen sponge. You wouldn’t put your sponge in the toilet and then use it to clean your dinner plate.<span class="Apple-converted-space"> </span></span><span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255); color: rgb(34, 34, 34); font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", Times, serif; font-size: 20px;">Why, then, do we let our brains absorb hours of filth every day and then think we can turn around and use those same minds to be decent, virtuous and Godly people in real life?</span><br></p>
<p dir="ltr">A lot of Christians (me included) are willing to write off bad language, sex scenes, or practices contrary to the Bible that we're commanded to avoid, in movies and books because we like the story. Let us never become desensitized. Daily, we have to go back to Philippians 4:8 and guard our ear gates and eyegates with the Word of God.</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-1624479831820501552018-02-17T07:21:00.001-08:002018-02-17T07:21:29.449-08:00More than a blog<p dir="ltr">Did you know I have another blog and a facebook page for my book?</p>
<p dir="ltr">Please feel free to check out my worship blog, and follow my book's facebook page.</p>
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Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-88722698193308925692017-12-05T19:03:00.001-08:002019-10-21T10:26:26.284-07:00SINGLE PONDERINGS<p dir="ltr">Singleness can be a very lonely time.<br>
Almost every Christian single knows all too well the overwhelming feeling of loneliness, sometimes to the point that going food shopping gets depressing.......ONLY because you have no company, but whether it’s living with an unfulfilled desire, or just being alone a lot, like a lot......singleness can be the loneliest season, and it seems to just drag on and on.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b><i>Being single in your 20’s is far different from your 30’s and beyond</i></b>.</p>
<p dir="ltr">When we think of singles, we think of teens and college kids. But it’s far more than that. Churches all across the world are filled with singles who are divorced, widowed, or over the age of 29.</p>
<p dir="ltr">I'm still in my 30s, but as the years go by, I can already see the feelings, attitudes, and perspectives toward singleness changing to that of a sort of terminally diseased person.  Obviously, this makes for super awkward encounters, or it makes singles choose to avoid those people.  At times, it even seems like other Christians are even embarrassed to be seen having a conversation with a single person.  </p>
<p dir="ltr"><b><i>Things to be mindful of </i></b></p>
<p dir="ltr">Watch your social media posts. Not every single social media update has to be about your spouse. Admittedly, this is obviously more to fault the singles over the married couples, but constant posts about your spouse or family, or anything related to that can create envy in singles and further push them away.  This is only being mentioned because it is something to be aware of.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Stop saying, "just be content in Christ" and that is also, unfortunately, very likely the first thought that enters the mind of a single person. When people rush into truthful statements, or rush to a specific point without first listening and understanding what a Christian single is saying or their perspective, it makes singles feel like others don’t care.  I'm always reminded of this quote .</p>
<p dir="ltr">“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply” Stephen R. Covey.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Give the truth in love, however, jumping to these blunt, albeit very true statements can also be perceived as "This is what you need to know, but please stop talking to me."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Don’t try to play “Match-Maker.” This is a BIG one. Introducing a godly guy to a godly gal is fine, and some singles definitely appreciate that, but constantly trying to hook singles up in your church is exasperating.  I'm sure I'm not the only single that finds this exhausting.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Intentionally pursue GENUINE friendships with singles. Married, it's ok to genuinely be friends with a single person.  They don't have leprosy and just because they're not married doesn’t mean you can’t hang out. Just don't ALWAYS talk about setting them up with so-and-so.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Ways churches can help</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr">Provide Bible studies for singles.....of ALL ages.  A lot of "single ministries" are nothing more than social clubs.  Perhaps that bible study could be a series of messages on all the single people in the Bible and applied to current day situations, encouragement for waiting on the Lord.....or being prepared to never be married.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Maybe host an annual game night at church, encouraging singles to come out.  Churches can help by facilitating an atmosphere of genuine friendship building. That is, set things up to where married folks hang out with single folks more often.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Answer the questions singles are asking. However, when answering questions, don't look down at the person as if to say, "you should know this..why don't you know this?"  Or " I don't need to talk to you, I'm married, go look it up/study it yourself"  That tone just pushes them away.</p>
<p dir="ltr">FOSTER and ENCOURAGE the talent of talented single Christians. Many churches are “run” by married folks. We must adhere to the biblical guidelines of church leadership found in 1 Tim. 3 and other places, but let’s not forget about singles when it comes to small group leaders, giving announcements, and other such roles.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><b><i>Ways anybody can encourage singles in their lives.</i></b></p>
<p dir="ltr">Encourage and remind them of the blessings of their time.  Many Christian singles feel lonely, but not all.  Yes, singleness can be painful, but it doesn’t have to be joyless. Whether it’s overseas missions, serving the church, or more time for evangelism, singleness offers a lot of advantages that married people don’t have and encourage the singles you know in this.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Some singles definitely have a deep and, at times, burning desire to be married one day and some will probably get married...and some may not. The big wedding day, honeymoon, and family that they envision for their life may come......or it may not. No one has any idea what’s going to happen to them tomorrow, <u>l</u>et alone their future. Instead of placing hope in a spouse, place hope in the perfect life, death, and resurrection of our Lord and Savior, and encourage living for the glory of Christ.</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-17769885734586697462017-10-31T16:51:00.001-07:002018-09-15T22:34:06.597-07:00A Biblical perspective <p dir="ltr">Does God detest the occult?</p>
<p dir="ltr">Ephesians 5:11-12 <b><i>"And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.  For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret."</i></b><br>
Witchcraft and sorcery is specifically named by God in the old and new testaments.  <br>
Deuteronomy 18:10-11<b><i> "There shall not be found among you any one that maketh his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, or that useth divination, or an observer of times, or an enchanter, or a witch, Or a charmer, or a consulter with familiar spirits, or a wizard, or a necromancer."</i></b></p>
<p dir="ltr">      <i>Pay close attention to the next verse</i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><b><i>"For ALL that do these things are an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee."</i></b><br>
These verses are under a different dispensation and so some say that God has changed, but let's look in the new testament.   The Holy Spirit groups witchcraft, idolatry, sorcery, etc. under sins that are a direct result of the sinful nature.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Galatians 5:19-21<b><i> "Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, WITCHCRAFT, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God."</i></b></p>
<p dir="ltr">I'm not sure that anything can be misinterpreted here.  Witchcraft, idolatry, sorcery, etc. are all works of the flesh.  Romans 8:8 is also very clear in stating <i><b>"So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God."</b></i>  This verse, itself, is convicting.  How often do Christians do things in the flesh?  Sometimes even witnessing to others can be done in the flesh.  It is so prevalent that we don't even think about it most times, yet this verse tells all believers that when something is done in the flesh, it's useless.  The Christian's goal, like the apostle Paul in Philippians chapter 3, ought to be to please God in every aspect of life.    </p>
<p dir="ltr"><i>Here are some brief and initial thoughts from a few new </i><i>believers.</i></p>
<p dir="ltr">-God is a God of life, but Halloween focuses on death. Should I participate in a holiday where people decorate their front yards with tombstones?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-The Scriptures tell us to put away deeds of darkness (Rom.13:12) and that light has nothing in common with darkness (2 Cor. 6:14). Is celebrating a dark holiday something a child of the light should be doing?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-I had been delivered from fear and panic attacks and knew that fear comes from the enemy. Should I participate in a holiday that has fear as its very foundation?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-Witchcraft is clearly detestable to the Lord (Deut 18:10-13). Shouldn't something that glorifies witchcraft (just take a walk through the Halloween store) be detestable to me as well?"</p>
<p dir="ltr">-Halloween is a sacred, high holiday for wiccans (the official religion of witchcraft). Is this a holiday Christians should celebrate alongside wiccans?<br>
-Is it cute when we dress our kids like the devil (or witches, ghouls, scary characters, etc.)? Isn't it, well, demonic?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-What if my child dresses in a wholesome fireman costume? Romans 16:19 says that we need to be wise to what is good and innocent of evil. If I let him participate in Halloween, even while dressed as a fireman, aren't I sending him a mixed message by allowing him to participate in a celebration of evil?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-The Lord said in 2 Cor. 6:17, "Come out from among them and be ye separate ... Touch no unclean thing ..." Doesn't God want His children to be set apart from the world and from sin and evil? Aren't we supposed to be a peculiar people?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-My extended family thinks it's ridiculous that we not allow our son to dress up for Halloween. Should their opinions matter to me more than God's? Shouldn't pleasing God be my utmost concern?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-If there is even a question in my heart and mind that it might be wrong, shouldn't that be my first clue? Why would I continue to do so with even a lingering thought that it is wrong?</p>
<p dir="ltr">-Does Halloween bring glory to God? No! It glorifies the devil! </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-18910982669954854162017-01-24T19:58:00.001-08:002017-01-25T20:16:40.835-08:00Do humans have a soul? Why/why not.
<p dir="ltr"><br>
(This was my reply to the above question posted on a Facebook page that I follow.  My response includes a few other pre-existing blog posts which were simply copied here.)  </p>
<p dir="ltr">YES, WE DO!</p>
<p dir="ltr">Genesis 1:1 "In the beginning, God created the heaven and the earth."</p>
<p dir="ltr">The first verse in the Bible tells us a great deal about God.  In the beginning, God.  Before we even get into all of His creation, we must first understand these first 4 word.  In the beginning God.....not buddha, raqa, muhammad, or any other religion.  In the beginning, God.  God created everything in heaven and earth.  All the galaxies that we can see and all the galaxies we can not see, were created by God.  Everything we see on earth and the things we don't see, but know without a doubt, are there.....the air we breathe, the wind that blows through trees and makes the waves....also everything in our make up.....our intricate brains, the paths our blood flows, the veins they travel, the white blood cells and red blood cells, the marrow in our bones, our nervous systems and the communication between our bodies and brains that tell us that we have a papercut.  Our emotions and all the intricacies of how we decide to be happy, sad, meloncolly, energetic, etc.  ALL of this, and a TON more, created by God.  God also created man, and breathed his soul.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Genesis 2:7 "And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul."</p>
<p dir="ltr">In creating us in His image, God created us to be intellectual, emotional, and to have a free will.  If you think about it, can science really explain where we get our emotions from? Our intellect?  Our drive to do what we want? There is a lot that science can explain, but only to a certain degree, after that.....the explanation stops. What about creation or the big bang theory?  The Bible says clearly that the heavens and earth were created.  Believing in creation or believing in the big bang theory take the same amount of faith.  No one, not me, not you, not our ancestors, were alive when the earth began.  There is far more evidence for creation, than for the big bang.  Even in humans there is far more evidence for creation.  Did you know that women have 1 less rib then men?  Coincidence? No, I don't believe so. The Bible says God formed woman from a man's rib! <br>
And this isn't just another theory.  It's very real, and very possible, and very real and possible to know thi Almighty God, the creator of everything we see and dont see, including humans and their souls. Our souls are destined to Hell because those first humans God created, sinned.  There also, needed to be a penalty for sin, death.  Both, physical death, but also spiritual death or eternal separation from the Almighty Creator.  Our souls will either spend eternity in Hell or eternity with God.  The Bible tells us that the only way to know God, be saved and spend eternity with God is to believe in the finished work of Christ, God’s only begotten Son.  It is as simple as believing in a chair to hold you up when you sit down, or as simple as drinking a glass of water, or even walking through a doorway.  All the payment of your sin and the sin of the world is paid for by our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.  There is no more work that needs to be done, and there is no more work that can be done.   </p>
<p dir="ltr">“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.” <br>
John 3:16</p>
<p dir="ltr">         The ONLY requirement for salvation is to believe.  Jesus said that receiving him as savior is as simple as taking a drink of water or walking through a doorway.  In the Old Testament, God gave an illustration of salvation to us by way of a plague sent on the nation of Israel, in Numbers chapter 21:6-9.  The nation of Israel was questioning God’s deliverance upon them.  In verse 6, the Bible says that God sent poisonous serpents upon the land and caused them to be bitten and many Israelites died.  Many of the Israelites came to Moses, confessing their sins and wanted Moses to pray and ask God to be merciful upon them.  Moses was commanded of the Lord to make a statue of a serpent and put it on the end of a pole and lift it up for all to see.  The only requirement for the deliverance of the people from their sickness was to look upon the brass serpent.  The idea of the people looking up to the serpent didn’t mean that all the people had to do was to glance at this serpent, but this was a two-fold meaning and it also meant to believe what the Lord has said.  Jesus himself refers to this event in the Gospel of John 3:14-16.</p>
<p dir="ltr">“And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up:  That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life.  For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">In order for people to get better from this poisonous bite, one had to simply look and believe on what the Lord had said.  This was the only way of deliverance that the Lord provided and it was his plan to do so.  There was no other way that the people could get better.  In the same way, there is no other way that one can be saved and have eternal life, but to believe on the finished work of the Lord Jesus Christ on the cross  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Acts 4:12 “Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">2 Corinthians 6:2b “…behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">1. The Bible - The Word of God<br>
It is so important for a young Christian to start right; therefore, the first lesson is designed to help establish your faith in the Bible, for it is the Word of God.<br>
“So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.”- Romans 10:17<br>
Keep in mind that the Bible is not a book of philosophy, though it is philosophical.  The Bible is not for a scientific treatise, however, there is no discrepancy between ascertained facts of science and the Bible. The Bible is not a book of history, but is found to be accurate when recording history. The Bible was given to man from God, revealing Jesus Christ, the Son of God, and God the Son, the only Savior. (John 14:6) He is the center and the circumference of life. (Col. 3:4) It is Christ from Genesis to Revelation. (John 5:39,46; Luke 24:44; Col.3:16; Rev. 1:1) The Bible is as high above all other thoughts and ways of any man as the heavens are above the earth. (Isaiah 55:8)<br>
The Bible is the inspired Word of God (II Timothy 3:16, written by the Holy Spirit. (II Peter 1:21)<br>
“All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:” - II Timothy 3:16</p>
<p dir="ltr">“For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost.” - II Peter 1:21<br>
In Daniel 9:2 is one of my favorite passages referring to the authorship of the scriptures. <br>
“…I Daniel understood by books the number of the years, whereof the word of the LORD came to Jeremiah the prophet, that he would accomplish seventy years in the desolations of Jerusalem.” - Daniel 9:2<br>
The Bible says that Daniel read the book of Jeremiah to understand his own dream.  This, also, is proof that the Holy Spirit wrote the scriptures.  Daniel was given a dream, recorded his dream with great detail, yet had to search the scriptures for more understanding.  This also is a great transition into the next point.<br>
The Bible is a difficult book (I Corinthians 2:14-16)<br>
“But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned. But he that is spiritual judgeth all things, yet he himself is judged of no man. For who hath known the mind of the Lord, that he may instruct him? But we have the mind of Christ.” - I Corinthians 2:14-16</p>
<p dir="ltr">            It is impossible for the natural man to know and to understand the things written in this tremendous book.  It is impossible because the Holy Spirit does not dwell within the natural man and therefore can not minister.  In fact, the Bible sounds foolish to him and this is mentioned again in 1 Corinthian 1:18.</p>
<p dir="ltr">For the preaching of the cross is to them that perish foolishness; but unto us which are saved it is the power of God.</p>
<p dir="ltr">            Unbelievers might not realize this truth, but it is proved over and over again when a believer shares the truth of God’s Word.  The unbelievers response, in one way or another, will be that the believer has been brainwashed into this foolish and ridiculous fantasy, made up years and years ago.   In this same verse, Paul writes that the preaching of the cross is the POWER of God to them that are saved.  This is a huge encouragement to any believer.  It is only by God’s mighty power to change the heart and thinking of a person. </p>
<p dir="ltr">The Bible or Word of God divides “soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.” (Hebrews 4:12)<br>
This verse states clearly that the Word of God discerns the soul and spirit, joints and marrow, and thoughts and intents of our hearts.  In this blog, I will only be addressing the thoughts and intents of our hearts.<br>
In comparison to Jeremiah 17:9 and multiple verses in Proverbs, the Bible states in a lot of places that we, in and of ourselves, can not direct our own ways or thoughts.  Isaiah 55:8 states “…my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD.”  The divinely inspired verse in Hebrews reminds believers that there is a way to direct our hearts and thoughts, His Word.  We are God’s creation and so it is only logical to conclude that we can not think or direct our own ways and scripture reminds us of this over and over.<br>
It is human nature to entertain a worldly, lustful, and insidious thought life.  The good news is God made us a new creature (2 Cor. 5:17) at the moment of salvation.  Therefore, we have all the ability we need to have a wonderful thought life.  In Philippians 4:8, Paul writes “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”  It is also logical to conclude that Paul wrote this verse because it is very unlikely otherwise to have a pure, true, etc. thought life. Other verses that address the thought life are found in Romans 12:2 and 2 Corinthians 10:5.  Both of these verses contain great, Biblical advice regarding our thought life.   In Romans, we are commanded to renew our minds.  The act of renewing our mind is exercised simply by reading God’s Word.  In Ephesians chapter 6, God tells us that the whole spiritual warfare is in our minds and that we need “Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth” (Ephesians 6:14) and arm ourselves with “the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God” (Ephesians 6:17) <br>
On the opposite side of the spectrum and because God knows the human nature and knows that if left to ourselves, believers will entertain that worldly, lustful, and insidious thought life, found in 2 Cor. 10:5.  “Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ”   This verse highly recommends that believers control their thought life by casting down every thought that is against the knowledge of Christ.  Paul’s goal in life was that he would know Christ.  A great way to get to know God and His Word is imply to think about the things that you read in His Word, or the Spiritual conversation you had with a friend at church.  The verses in scripture are ever insightful and will never be exhausted, in our life time.  It truly is a blessing to ponder the things of God!</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-56730619763335131332016-09-23T20:29:00.001-07:002017-01-11T16:51:48.410-08:00DOES GOD HEAR ALL HIS CHILDREN'S PRAYERS?<p dir="ltr">             According to this verse, sin separates the believer from fellowship with God.  This is also why 1 John 1:9 is such a vital and daily practice.  There are no degrees to sin, according to the Bible, but perhaps there is a habitual problem of using the Lord's name in vain, maybe a lifestyle living in the sin of homosexuality, or even constant worrying (worry is a sin - Phil. 4:6), all sin needs to be confessed, but more importantly, all sin separate believers from fellowship with God. </p>
<p dir="ltr"><b><i>Isaiah 59:2 "But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear."</i></b></p>
<p dir="ltr">             Not just fellowship, but also prayer.  When we pray with unconfessed sin in our hearts and lives, the Lord does not hear them.  There are a lot of times that people tell me that they are praying for this or that and yet, I know, they have unconfessed sin in their lives.  Most often, this seems to be prevalent in those who are decidedly living in a lifestyle opposed to Biblical values.  All Christians sin, but the Holy Spirit convicts.  Living in a blatant and rebellious lifestyle is shaking your fist to God, yet Christians everywhere are living in unconfessed sin.<br>
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<b>  </b><b><i>   1 John 1:9 "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."</i></b></p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-16527819440976049292016-09-21T21:09:00.001-07:002016-09-21T21:09:55.796-07:00IS IT OK FOR CHRISTIANS TO ACCEPT ANYTHING THAT IS LABELED "CHRISTIAN "?<p dir="ltr">            To a lot of Christians, it would seem to be safe to go to a "Christian" church, a "Christian" concert, or any other "Christian" event.  After all, it's "Christian".  I use quotations because for the last decade or so, churches and other events seem to just throw the term Christian onto whatever it is they're promoting.   Unfortunately, a lot of true believers will run to these events or churches that are labeled Christian.  Unfortunately, churches also type up anything they want and it can sound really good and Biblical, but one has to go to this church, and maybe for a while, before the truth is revealed, even though it seemed really good online.<br>
With one time or annual events, it might be pretty easy to distinguish pretty quickly certain errors.  There are a few passages in the Bible that commands the believer to test and prove these things against scripture.  Anything that a believer involves themselves in needs to be examined through the lens of scripture.  That's not easy to do, especially when so much of what goes on is labeled as Christian.<br>
              There's a number of verses that warn the believer of dangers throughout the world, and there are also some very clear verses commanding that the believer think, <u>pray</u> and research before jumping into that "christian" get together or attending that "christian" church.  One word that is common in the following verses is to approve, prove, or try.  Ok, 3 words, but looking at the Greek, they all mean the same; to examine, prove, or deem worthy.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Philippians 1:10<br>
1 Thessalonians 5:21<br>
1 John 4:1</p>
<p dir="ltr">             If the Bible commands that these things be examined or proven, or deemed worthy, what is the standard?  Well, God's Word. Anything that the Christian participates in that is not deemed worthy of God's approval, is, well, "chasing after the wind", as is put in Ecclesiastes.  Paul stated his life's goal in Philippians 3:10 and 14.</p>
<p dir="ltr">10 "That I may know him, and the power of his resurrection, and the fellowship of his sufferings, being made conformable unto his death;"</p>
<p dir="ltr">14 "I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-63471022171924318592016-09-11T19:54:00.001-07:002016-09-12T09:48:19.855-07:00"I'M NOT PERFECT, BUT I'M BETTER THAN YOU" Part 2<p dir="ltr"><br>
              As they talk about other Christian's faults and gossip about the things others do, they say to me, <b>“I’m not like those other Christians.  I actually get it.” </b>I'm not talking about any one person particularly, but yet that group of Christians everyone seems to know or maybe it's not even a group, but only 1 or 2, but this phrase, or others very similar, seems to be a very common "go-to" saying. Why do people think down on others or maybe they don't and just simply acquire a "holier than thou" outlook.  In most instances, this outlook seems to be evident in areas of Christian liberty, or areas where the Bible is not specific, yet the matter is left to the discernment of the Christian.  There are, however, instances where this is evident in ministry, Bible studies and discussions, and even in the mundane things of the christian life.  There is a great Bible verse in 1 Corinthians chapter 8 and the context is Christian liberty.</p>
<p dir="ltr">1 Corinthians 8:1 "Now as touching things offered unto idols, we know that we all have knowledge. <b><i>Knowledge puffeth up, but charity edifieth."</i></b></p>
<p dir="ltr">             The bold, italics is always the part that jumps out at me.  As mentioned above, this particular outlook does not need to be about Christian liberty matters, but it could just be the result of once attending some classes at a great seminary or even some classes from a knowledgeable teacher or pastor. Even having gone through the same experiences that others are currently going though seems to give people an entitlement outlook of "I get it, but you don't yet" or just experience and position in general seems to demand respect (almost looking for an awe effect) when not earned.  There are lots of reasons people feel entitled to superiority over others.  James 4:10 and 1 Peter 5:6 are virtually the same verse.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">"Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up."</p>
<p dir="ltr">            Romans 12 adds a new dimension to humbling ourselves, but also to keep control of our own thoughts.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Romans 12:3 "For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to every man the measure of faith."</p>
<p dir="ltr">               One problem with having a self-superior outlook is that there is no way to know the way the person on the other end will react to this attitude.  The recipient could be on the verge of a mental overload simply from all the stress of life.  To have to listen to someone's self-superior retort might shun them away.  They might also be just having a bad day and are not able to control their tongue at that moment.  Obviously, there's no excuse for wrongful behavior on either side and there are, of course, many other reasons to be humble.  Number one being because God commands it.  Another reason would be that God resists the proud and will one day chasten them with whatever is needed to humble that person......and it could be life changing depending on the Christians level of pride. It could be humiliating, like King Nebuchadnezzar's experience. </p>
<p dir="ltr">              Isaiah tells us that God's thoughts and ways are not our thoughts and ways.  When Christians are not humble enough to change perspectives and attitudes and responses towards others, that Christian will be humbled by God himself.  It is always safer to be humble rather than be humble<i><b>D</b></i> and humiliated</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-32364732420353687922016-09-06T18:49:00.001-07:002016-09-11T19:42:07.276-07:00"I'M NOT PERFECT, BUT I'M BETTER THAN YOU."<p dir="ltr">             There seems to be a common school of thinking in regards to self-righteousness.  It's very easy to get caught up in the trap of thinking that your own accomplishments or experiences surpass that of anyone else.  All of us have fallen short of the glory of God, and have fallen to the same depth of helplessness and sin, but even with that knowledge, Christians are prideful. No matter how much of your life has been spent in the pursuit of godliness, there is still the sin of pride.  For some, it might be because of attending many years in seminary, sitting under a certain teacher or school, or even just studying the Bible for your whole life.  The Bible has a lot to say about self-righteousness, or in another word, pride.</p>
<p dir="ltr">          So what are some verses that will help us understand the value of pride?  Starting in Proverbs chapter 8, the Lord tells us just what He thinks of pride. </p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Proverbs 8:13  "The fear of the LORD is to hate evil: pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate."</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Proverbs 16:18 "Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall."</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr">            These two verses are probably the most well known, yet it seems as though reverence for this issue is lacking.  God tells us very clearly here, and in many, many other places that he hates pride and that pride will lead to destruction.  The sin of pride is so ingrained in human nature that the prideful person is blinded from reality.  Let's look at some other verses that tell of the Lord's discontent with this matter.  </p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Psalm 138:6 "Though the LORD be high, yet hath he respect unto the lowly: but the proud he knoweth afar off."</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Proverbs 16:5a "Every one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the LORD..."</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Proverbs 21:4 "...and a proud heart...is sin."</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Jeremiah 50:31a "Behold, I am against thee, O thou most proud, saith the Lord GOD of hosts..." </b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>Jeremiah 50:32a "And the most proud shall stumble and fall..."</b></i></p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>James 4:6 "But he giveth more grace. Wherefore he saith, God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble."</b></i><br>
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             There are many, many other verses all over scripture in regards to pride, but I wanted to try to focus in on God's view of the sin of pride.  It is clear in scripture what God's thoughts are, but also it's hard to ignore that some of these verses also tell us what kind of heart we need to have.  God honors the humble heart and regards highly anyone who is humble.  One of my favorite verses that tell Christians clearly the place and value of the humble in heart is found in Isaiah 57:15.<br>
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<i><b>            "For thus saith the high and lofty One that inhabiteth eternity, whose name is Holy; I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also that is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite ones."</b></i><br>
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              God is speaking in this verse and is just as clear here about the value placed on Christians with humble and contrite spirits.  Of course and unfortunately, we still have the sin nature, however striving to be humble and contrite assures a close walk with God.  <br>
               </p>
<p dir="ltr"><i><b>               Micah 6:8 "He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?"</b></i></p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-36024820899123217932016-08-29T07:14:00.001-07:002016-08-29T07:14:40.699-07:00Lessons in Love<p dir="ltr">      God needs to teach us how He loves so we can better love others, and how much and how complete His love is, for us to have a better understanding of Him and to gain more appreciation that He chose us to be His.  A lesson that gets so ingrained in the heart and mind that it can not be forgotten, is painful, but is also glorious, and, of course, ultimately magnifies the scope and intensifies the depth of the character of God.  Glimpses into God's character is all He wants for his children, so that we can learn and strive to be more like that perfect and glorious character.  Once that first small glimpse is learned, the next glimpse appears, which is often a more difficult lesson, and that cycle continues all our life.  More often, these lessons get more painful, overwhelming, and heart-wrenching, especially when they are about Christ's love.  After these harsh love lessons, <u>the</u> reality becomes more real that we need to love all our brothers and sisters in Christ and people in the world unashamedly, non descrimanatingly and, as in 1 Corinthians 13, covering all faults.  One indication of pure love is that others will probably not understand how a Christian can love a person so involved in worldliness.  Jesus is the only true example Christians have of how to love and through some harsh lessons, the Lord gives a small glimpse of what it's like to have such a love for someone, and for reasons inexplicable other than exemplifying the love of God.<br>
           These lessons are harsh, however the Lord first needs to humble us to a place of teachableness and a willingness to be transformed into His image.  </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-44900955148096577702016-08-23T09:38:00.001-07:002018-09-03T18:29:44.720-07:00CHARACTERISTICS OF PRIDE VERSES HUMILITY <p dir="ltr">Pride:</p>
<p dir="ltr">"The first is that prideful people are not very thankful, after all, they deserve it, don't they? They deserve the good things anyway and so, of course, they don't have to give thanks because they deserve all of the good things </p>
<p dir="ltr">Prideful people have outbursts of anger because, “Around here there's really only one way and that's mine. There's really only one schedule and that's mine. There's only one set of expectations and that's mine. So, if you mess with my way, you mess with my schedule, you mess with my expectations, then you will feel my wrath.” That's pride and people who are full of pride have outbursts of anger. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Prideful people are perfectionistic. That doesn't mean we can't strive for excellence but perfectionistic people think that their work, their stuff and their accomplishments are perfect because, after all, they're the only ones who know how to do things right and that is the only thing that satisfies them.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Prideful people hate accountability. They hate accountability and they don't want to listen to anyone. They don't want to be under anyone's authority. They think they're entirely self-sufficient and so they don't want accountability. “Forget that. Being accountable for my responses and my actions? Are you kidding me? I don't need accountability. Why? Because I do it all right anyway.” That's a person who is full of pride.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Prideful people are consumed with what others might think of them, though they hide it, being man-pleasers. Praise is addicting to them and so they become very self-righteous about how wonderful they are and how, well, not so wonderful others are.....or when they get criticized, they launch into self-pity because, “It feels like everybody is coming down on me.” “Oh, I can't handle it.”  Those are actually expressions of pride. And they cannot imagine someone actually asking them to take a step of faith in anything and when they do, they get upset, they distance relationships, they stop hanging out or talking with those people anymore because, “You're messing with me and my plans and my way.” </p>
<p dir="ltr">Prideful people are defensive. They're defensive. You can't really teach them something, they're defensive. They have an answer to everything, because they know everything all ready.  They don't have the attitude to learn.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Humility:</p>
<p dir="ltr">There's thankfulness. Jesus died. I mean, sometimes you have to tell yourself that a lot, over and over and over again to see the significance of the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus and that without it we would have no hope of eternal life.</p>
<p dir="ltr">There's regular and constant prayer because humble people know where their strength comes from and they recognize that if the Lord wanted to do a Nebuchadnezzar to us, he is fully capable of doing that. If he wanted us to walk in humiliation, he could. You see, humble people just say, “I know I don't have enough strength. I know I don't have enough skills. I know I don't have enough wisdom. I need your help, Lord, and I’m asking you to do your work first of all in my heart and also heart of others.” They are actively serving others including those who have nothing to offer in return. You see, they are willing to serve simply because they want to serve Jesus and they don't have to have the rescuer or the savior mentality to the service.</p>
<p dir="ltr">They have a learner's attitude. They recognize that every time the word of God is opened, there is something there for them. There is some area of growth, some way in which they need to take a step and so they're coming asking the Lord for help every single time.</p>
<p dir="ltr">They pursue integrity. They don't just wait for people to catch them in their sin, they <br>
pursue integrity.  Oftentimes people have a little part of their life that is just hidden over here, nobody knows about it, just kind of their own little thing and it's not until thats exposed that they will even begin to admit it and yet, what the humble person does is pursues integrity, doesn't want any of those little areas floating in their life.</p>
<p dir="ltr">They encourage others, they don't say, “There's me and then there's you,” they say, “There's you and then me.” It just doesn't make sense, does it? But that's where we need the strength of Christ to constantly come alongside so that the emphasis can be on the you rather than on the me."</p>
<p dir="ltr">It takes a lot of humility, not pride to speak kindly.<br>
It takes a lot of humility, not pride to love others.<br>
It takes a lot of humility, not pride to have an attitude of learning.<br>
It takes a lot of humility, not pride to serve others and not yourself. <br>
It takes a lot of humility, not pride to accept Christ's gift of eternal life. <br>
It takes a lot of humility, not pride to serve a risen savior.</p>
<p dir="ltr"><i>Quoted section from Rob Green's</i><i> message: The Characteristics of Love</i><i>.</i></p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-1373840573135918302015-12-06T09:20:00.001-08:002019-06-06T03:40:36.392-07:00A few good thoughts.<p dir="ltr">SPIRITUAL disciplines of a Godly pastor:</p>
<p dir="ltr">1. Read, read, read, and read some more.</p>
<p dir="ltr">2. Pray, pray, pray, and pray some more, realizing that though prayer is to be constant, eventually steps of faith need to be taken.</p>
<p dir="ltr">3. Utilize biblical commentaries and other biblical study aids and/or software.</p>
<p dir="ltr">4. Surround yourself with Godly people who will keep you accountable and whom you don't have a problem with taking their advice/biblical criticism. </p>
<p dir="ltr">5. Know what the Bible says on the character of a pastor and practice those things.</p>
<p dir="ltr">6. Lead  by example.  The person you are in church does influence others, either negatively or positively.  Choose for the glory of God.</p>
<p dir="ltr">7. Put energy into your ministry and all the ministries that you, alone, can handle.  Dont depend on others to offer or be willing to serve in every ministry, but when they do, it will be a blessing.....and when that happens, then you can add other ministries or refocus on other projects.</p>
<p dir="ltr">PRACTICAL disciplines of a Godly pastor:</p>
<p dir="ltr">1. Spend time getting your life and family organized to suit the ministry and ministries you're involved in.</p>
<p dir="ltr">2. If you’re not willing to say “no” to other people most of the time, you will never accomplish your priorities or be efficient in various ministries. It might also be necessary to delegate responsibilities and step back.</p>
<p dir="ltr">3. Develop healthy communication with those all around you.</p>
<p dir="ltr">4. Know your own limits and the limits of those in your church.</p>
<p dir="ltr">5. Never expect too much or ask too much of people.</p>
<p dir="ltr">6. Discipline yourself to take one day off a week to rest/replenish/refresh and connect with your family.</p>
<p dir="ltr">7. Take your vacation time every year to disconnect from public and church ministry in order to develop deep relations with your family.</p>
<p dir="ltr">8. Lead by example.  The person you are outside of church does influence others, either negatively or positively.  Choose for the glory of God.</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-57816550494343364842015-10-21T06:36:00.001-07:002015-11-05T18:06:48.563-08:00BREAKING: Marty McFly was nowhere to be found<p dir="ltr">        It seemed to be a monumental day that was approaching for Back to the Future fans all over.  October 21st was the day that Marty was scheduled to spontaneously appear from the past.  There were posts all over facebook, news headlines and even the top 10 predictions from the iconic 80's movie, and what ones came true or seem to be.  (I.e. the Cubs in the World Series)  However,  Marty was nowhere to be found on this iconic day in history.   At times, it almost seemed surreal, with all this excitement and hype going around.  (Well, that might be an exaggeration, but that's the piont. )</p>
<p dir="ltr">        There will be an appearing made that infinitely supersedes any real life cameo that can be made by anyone on earth.  That's because the person I'm referring to is the Almighty Son of God.  The One and Only Savior of all mankind who rightly deserves a much much greater excitement in anticipation from his children!  The first appearing of the Son of God, Jesus Christ, was also so accurately prophesied,  which should give Christians even greater confirmation that His prophecies are true.  Those who do not have a relationship with Christ will one day know the seriousness and true faithfulness of God.   As I perused through my back to the future filled news feed on facebook,  I couldn't help but wonder why Christians don't seem this excited for the imminent return of our Lord and Savior.   </p>
<p dir="ltr">1 Thessalonians 4: 16-18</p>
<p dir="ltr">"For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore <b><i>comfort</i></b> one another with these words."</p>
<p dir="ltr">        </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-65093627626620613382015-09-23T18:31:00.001-07:002019-04-05T10:26:23.928-07:00The ever present struggle to "Rejoice with them that do Rejoice"<p dir="ltr">           Have you ever been there?  That place, that moment, when you look around the room after a friend has announced (of course with their new significant other) that they are in a relationship, or even just the sight of seeing a new couple, you realize, while in a dazed stupor that you're the only person not jumping up and down?  You're the only one not squealing with excitement, shouting congratulations and singing praises to God, or drenching them with love? </p>
<p dir="ltr">And. It. Is. Awkward.</p>
<p dir="ltr">         It's not because you're unhappy for them, because of course you're happy.  It’s just that every couple announcement brings a tsunami wave of emotions that crashes over you. The intensity of these emotions leave you breathless. And numb. And scared.  And…well…not yourself.  It’s within the first 60 seconds of their joyous announcement you instantly feel happiness, joy, sometimes relief for that person because you know their struggle, but also there's bitterness, anger, sadness and grief, even resentment, all at once.   Not necessarily towards them, but towards your own circumstances. Because why haven’t your prayers been answered? Are you not worthy? Don’t you deserve a mate just as much as they do?</p>
<p dir="ltr">           It’s also within that same 60 seconds you feel joy and happiness for them. And even a sense of relief and hope. Relief that they will never have to endure the pain of singleness anymore, and also a rare form of hope, hope that maybe, just maybe it might be your turn next. People dont realize these emotions that come so fast and so hard, which are hugely difficult to juggle.  Especially in a group setting…with an audience, because you're convinced everyone is staring at you and waiting.  Waiting and wondering.  Waiting for your reaction.  And wondering what you might be thinking, or feeling.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Is he happy? Will he cry? What will he say? Is he mad? I wonder if he is jealous?  <br>
            Romans 12:15 commands the Christian to "Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep."  A Christian that has been, and may continue to have to struggle with singleness, also struggles immensely with a tsunami, hurricane, tornado, (whatever natural disaster you want to equate this too) of questions of "is something wrong with me?", "why?", "when is it my turn?" "Will I ever experience a relationship? " "How will this point me to God?".  And these same questions, and there's more (I only put a few), flood the mind of that Christian single every time they see a new couple, get invited to a wedding,  or maybe they don't even get an invite, but just know a couple is getting married, a new baby announcement,  their buying a house, going on a really cool date (well......any type of date would be great...) At times, that Christian single won’t be able to hold back the tears and give people the joyful congratulations they deserve.  I know, I've been at weddings, but couldn't talk because of the quivering lips and heart-wrenching and real pain.  Not only is this also an overwhelming feeling of guilt, but another part of the guilt we feel is that this new couple sees our waterfall of tears and quivering lips and most likely have the perception that is for them and it's just that we're so overjoyed for them, and we're speechless.  Sadly and unfortunately, it has very little to do with them and therein lies the guilt.  This should be a moment when we express our excitement and sincere happiness, but.....it's not.  Not because we aren't thinking of those things and don't want to express them.  There is just SO much in these emotions and it's too much to try to even explain....even after a few days when we're calm.  We are in immense pain. And we can’t stop the feelings we feel from the hurt of singleness, and most often the loneliness that accompanies, or the fearful thoughts we have that this joy and excitement you now have, may never come true for us. And it’s hard. It makes us feel like an awful person, because we know the right thing to do is set aside our pain for their joy, but sometimes in that moment......we can’t.  We really want to, but we just can’t.</p>
<p dir="ltr">              I realize not every Christian struggling with singleness feels or reacts this way, because while I may not always like being told in a group setting, others may prefer that.  In fact, the thought of someone else treating them differently or "tip-toeing" around them, may infuriate some.  We're all struggling in our own ways. We're all dealing with different wounds.  Different scars.  Different past experiences.  And we're all in different stages of grief.  But I believe despite the differences and despite the struggles, we're all in need of the same grace. Grace to help us rejoice to the best of our abilities. Grace to give us the strength to overcome our unpredictable emotions. Grace to see us through our painful and heart-wrenching circumstances.  And grace to help us never give up hope that maybe, just maybe, our turn will be next.</p>
<p dir="ltr">             But with that grace, I also believe there needs to be compassion. And so if you're reading this today and are either in a strong relationship or married, can I make a suggestion? A suggestion on how to share your news in a group setting that has someone you know struggling and praying every day, every minute, or every second for their own relationship? Or maybe you have shared it with everyone, but not them because your not quite sure how to and want to be sensitive. So while I know it sounds like an awesome opportunity to announce it in front of your friends or family members at the big family get together, it’s probably going to be a very uncomfortable time for your single and ever-mindful-of-their-singleness friend or family member.  Maybe even potentially reopen a wound that was just starting to scab over.  Or cause them embarrassment as they are unable to hold back the waterfall of tears that sometimes accompany the pain they are feeling.  And so in order to possibly help shield those wounds and allow them to “rejoice with those who rejoice” to the best of their ability, (and in their own unique way) can I offer you my number one tip or suggestion or piece of advice? (however you want to look at it)<br>
If so, here it is…</p>
<p dir="ltr">              I know this may seem like more trouble than its worth, but sit them down, privately, just you two and them.  Maybe not even start the conversation with "so me and so and so are dating....." they see you two together. They get it. Talk to them as if nothing has changed and know that in the meantime, the news of another couple that they have to get used to is being processed.  They need time to process that information. Process their grief. Process all their emotions.  There may be some tears, tears of joy, but also of sorrow, for themselves.  However, know that they really do want to support you, and they really do want to be there with everyone else, but they just might need that extra time to pull themselves together in order to do so.</p>
<p dir="ltr">              A lot of people may read this and get the sense that whenever a Christian single has a break down at the mention of a relationship, that they are just being incredibly selfish and looking for attention.   Although, sadly, some Christian singles may use their circumstances to get others to pity them, there are a few who do not think that way in the least.  This is also part of the overwhelmingly guilty feelings that go through our minds and hearts.  We know that others may percieve our breakdown as an act of selfishness, but we're just trying to get through this moment.   </p>
<p dir="ltr">               These are a lot of reasons behind a single person's breakdown and struggle, but there is so much more to it, but for the reasons above, we need grace, compassion, understanding,  and sensitivity from others.  Now, you may be asking yourself, "why don't they say so?"  It's hard to talk about your own struggle and sometimes just talking about things, we can feel the emotions creeping up inside, and we just don't want to have another public breakdown, so to avoid that, they may change the subject, or even walk away.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">               I hope that’s not too hard too ask, is it?  It’s doable right?  Because telling them privately still allows you to share your awesome news in front of your friends and family......just others need time and care.  As was said earlier, some people don't like when others feel the need to "tip-toe" around them, but to some, it shows incredible care and thought for their well-being. </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-48166534369218431612015-09-11T17:06:00.001-07:002015-09-11T17:06:50.579-07:00To tolerate or not to tolerate? <p dir="ltr"> More and more often, with everything that is happening in the world, it's hard for a Christian to remember to love and to show the loving side of Christianity. There are many scripture verses that command the Christian's separation from this and that, and that separation is from things that oppose God's Word and, in some cases, very specific situations from other people and of course, these demand certain indications, but in general, we are to love our neighbors. In this post, I will look at all the passages with this commandment and, Lord willing, the reader will be encouraged from God's Word. <br>
I did a simple search through the Bible of where Christians are told to love their neighbor and there are at least 9 instances. These are the clearest, in my opinion.</p>
<p dir="ltr">UNDER THE OLD TESTAMENT LAW:</p>
<p dir="ltr">Leviticus 19:18 "Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Leviticus 19:34 "But the stranger that dwelleth with you shall be unto you as one born among you, and thou shalt love him as thyself; for ye were strangers in the land of Egypt: I am the LORD your God."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Matthew 19:19 "Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Matthew 22:37-39 "Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Mark 12:30-31 "And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Luke 10:27 "And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself."</p>
<p dir="ltr">UNDER THE AGE OF GRACE, AND TO MODERN DAY CHRISTIANS:</p>
<p dir="ltr">Romans 13:9b "...and if there be any other commandment, it is briefly comprehended in this saying, namely, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Galatians 5:14 "For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself."</p>
<p dir="ltr">James 2:8 "If ye fulfil the royal law according to the scripture, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ye do well:"<br>
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The majority of these passages are found during the dispensation of law and therefore most would conclude that because Christians are no longer under the law, but under grace, this command is obselete. Unfortunately, this is untrue because there are 3 other times in the new testament that this command is directed to Christians in the dispensation of grace. <br>
I fear that a lot of people, christians included, taint the perception of Christianity for their lack of love towards others, myself included. In acknowledging all the Christians that are suffering persecution and wrongful imprisonments all over the world, there is a lesson in loving the person more than the sin the rest of us need to learn from their example. <br>
The Bible commands that Christians love their neighbor. Below, I have put the original Greek and Hebrew terms and emphasized a commonality in both. Another person. According to the Bible, a neighbor is another person, regardless of their social status, skin color, choice of religion or lifestyle. All people are to be shown love by Christians. </p>
<p dir="ltr">Greek word:</p>
<p dir="ltr">Original: πλησίον<br>
Transliteration: plēsion<br>
Phonetic: play-see'-on<br>
Thayer's definitions<br>
1. a neighbour<br>
2. a friend<br>
3. any other person, and where two are concerned, the other (thy fellow man, thy neighbour), according to the Jews, any member of the Hebrew nation and commonwealth<br>
4. according to Christ, any other man irrespective of nation or religion with whom we live or whom we chance to meet</p>
<p dir="ltr">Hebrew word:</p>
<p dir="ltr">Original: ריע רע<br>
Transliteration: rêa‛ rêya‛<br>
Phonetic: ray'-ah<br>
BDB Definition:<br>
1. friend, companion, fellow, another person<br>
2. friend, intimate<br>
3. fellow, fellow-citizen, another person (weaker sense) other, another</p>
<p dir="ltr"><i> How do Christians lack in this? </i></p>
<p dir="ltr"> Well, that's easy to do. Simply by being unfriendly can be the simplest way a Christian can give the perception of unloving. Sometimes it is unintentional........but sometimes it can be intentional. For example, the Lord may bring people into our lives for the very reason to teach us how to love, properly. However, Christians can sometimes say things that seem like it is a chore to associate with a particular person. Christians may wonder to themselves or even ask their fellow Christians, why are you talking to that person?......or you don't want to talk to them, do you? I think you may see the point. It is vital for a Christian to love others, and to speak in a loving way, both to their fellow Christians and to people that they may not want to be friendly to. <br>
The title of this post is to tolerate or not to tolerate. There are many, many evils, sins and situations in the Bible that are necessary, and needful, for the Christian to avoid and, not tolerate. Sin needs to be shunned from the life of the Christian and when Christians associate themselves with those who practice sin on a daily basis, <i>(hint: we all do)</i> there is very little room for intolerance for the person, not the sin. Throughout history, people have tried to practice intolerance, to no avail. People like Adolf Hitler (though there was A LOT MORE on his agenda) was very intolerant of people and yet, Christians still seem to tolerate people that are persecuting and wrongfully imprison them, simply for being a christian. It is very possible to love a person so much aside from their political views, lifestyle, what they favor or don't favor, etc., and still love them, as a person created in the image of God.</p>
<p dir="ltr">John 15:12 "This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you."<br>
One of the many ways that we as children of God, can show love to each other is by first sharing the truth of God's love and that God loves everybody so much, that He gave his only son to die for the sins of the world. Whoever will believe that, will have an eternal relationship with the One who loved and created them. (John 3:16) Another way, is to look past all the sin in someone's life and to love them, the person, created in God's image.</p>
<p dir="ltr"> 1 John 4:7-11 "Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love. In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another."</p>
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Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-40409999268810128932015-09-01T09:10:00.001-07:002019-09-10T12:38:47.040-07:00Should Christians regard halloween? <p dir="ltr">        One of the most significant days of the year, for unbelievers, is approaching and it seems as though a lot of Christians tend to take advantage of this day to pass out tracts and share the gospel of Christ's sacrifice, or decide to join in on the fun even if they decide not to pass out tracks or anything.  However,  is this really something that the true Christian should be doing?  Let's look at what the Bible says, but before examining what the Bible says about participating in this day, let's remind ourselves of the origins and very real existence of what halloween celebrates; witches, witchcraft,  and the occult.  Here is a brief look at the origins.</p>
<p dir="ltr">      The Halloween customs the world observes on October 31st had their beginnings long ago. The origins and traditions can be traced back thousands of years to the days of the ancient Celts and their priests, the Druids of ancient Gaul and Britain. We know little of the Druids, but of certain is that they had an elaborate religious and political organization. Some were soothsayers, magicians, sorcerers, and barbs (composers and reciters of heroes and their deeds). Their religion worshipped numerous gods and natural objects, such as trees, wells, etc., in which magical practices were involved.<br>
        The Druids believed that witches, demons, and spirits of the dead roamed the earth on the eve of November 1st. Bonfires (literally "bone-fires") were lit to drive away the bad spirits. The great bonfires served another purpose as well -- on this night, unspeakable sacrifices were offered by the Druid priests to their Lord of Death (Saman). The celebration was called "The Feast of Samhain" (pronounced SAH-WEEN). The Druids would carefully watch the writhing of the victims in the fire (sometimes animals, sometimes humans). From their death agonies, they would foretell the future (divination) of the village. The local householders then each took a portion of the fire to their own hearths for good luck and good crops in the new year.<br>
         To protect themselves from the mean tricks of these spirits (like killing livestock), the Druids offered them good things to eat (sometimes food, sometimes female children). The Druids also disguised themselves in order that the spirits would think the Druids belonged to their own evil company, and therefore, not bring any harm to the Druids. They also carried "jack-ó-lanterns," a turnip or potato with a fearful, demonic face carved into it, to intimidate the demons around them. And, thus, this "tradition" is carried over today as Halloween and is celebrated by dressing up in costumes, playing trick or treat, wearing masks, and carrying jack-ó-lanterns.<br>
        Much later, the Roman Catholic Church set aside the first day of November to honor all the saints who had no special days of their own. This was known as All Saints' Day, and was preceded by All Hallows' Eve (derived from the word "hallowed" or "holy evening"). Eventually, the two festivals (the old pagan customs and the Roman Catholic feast day) were combined, and All Hallows' Eve was shortened to Hallowe'en. Professing Christians were now provided a convenient "alternative" to the aforementioned pagan ceremonies.<br>
           Despite half-hearted attempts by the Catholic Church to destroy the pagan religious practices associated with Hallowe'en, they have survived. During the Middle Ages, such practices found an outlet in the practice of witchcraft, which was and is devoted to communing with the spirits of the dead and to the worship of Satan himself. While almost every major holiday has been tainted with some form of paganism, none are so deeply immersed in the occult as is Hallowe'en.</p>
<p dir="ltr">            To this day, one of the special "sabbaths" for Satan-worship continues to be October 31st -- HALLOWE'EN!   (Sourced from Biblical Discernment Ministries)</p>
<p dir="ltr">            A wiccan (modern day witch) website describes this day as "A night of magic and chaos." This website also states that "It's generally celebrated on October 31st,  but some prefer November 1st, being the festival of Samhain, 1 of the 2 spirit nights each year, the other, Beltane.  And it's a magical interval when the mundane laws of time and space are temporarily suspended and the thin veil between the worlds (physical and spiritual) is lifted, and communicating with ancestors and departed loved ones is easier at this time.  It's a time to study the dark mysteries and honor the dark mother and dark father, symbolized by the crone."<br>
          A lot of these traditions are still obviously present in todays practice of halloween, and clearly it is a day that is still dedicated to witches, witchcraft, and the occult.   </p>
<p dir="ltr">           I used to live about an hour north of Salem, Massachusetts, where the famous witch trials were held.  Today, there are big parades held during this day every year that celebrate witchcraft and other occult traditions.  Even though I lived an hour north, I remember a lot of ex-coworkers that were and most likely still are very into this celebration.   When I was younger, I was a bag boy and the cashier was a dedicated wiccan (she was only 16 or so years old) and it was quite normal for me to see palm reading shops and psychic businesses along the main roads.  When I moved to PA, I thought that "...halloween is probably not celebrated much.  I mean, I was in the direct radius of where the witch trials were."  I was mistaken.  Halloween and the occult is probably more regarded. My first encounter was with a boy who attended my church.  I soon found out that he was heavily involved with all things paranormal and the spirit world.  Soon afterwards, I was getting a haircut and the lady was bragging about her halloween decorations and that for the next year, she wanted to buy a coffin to display in her yard! I have also talked with multiple people, christians also, who find these things to be fascinating.  My experiences from when I was younger not only drilled it deeper why the Bible takes this evil seriously,  but also how serious it is for people involve to themselves in these things.<br>
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            Time to explore and examine what the Bible says about all this.  Most references are found in the old testament, however, there are some key passages in the new testament.   In Exodus 7:11 "Then Pharaoh also called the wise men and the sorcerers: now the magicians of Egypt, they also did in like manner with their enchantments."  Pharaoh ordered that people involved in these things perform their magic and enchantments.   In 1 Samuel 28: 7-14, the witch of Endor contacts the dead. Deuteronomy 32:16-17 tells us that demonic involvement was intentional.  Even involvement in the occult and witchcraft were grounds for excommunication, according to the law.  Leviticus 17:7-9 says "And they shall no more offer their sacrifices unto devils, after whom they have gone a whoring. This shall be a statute for ever unto them throughout their generations. 8. And thou shalt say unto them, Whatsoever man there be of the house of Israel, or of the strangers which sojourn among you, that offereth a burnt offering or sacrifice, 9  And bringeth it not unto the door of the tabernacle of the congregation, to offer it unto the LORD; even that man shall be cut off from among his people."  This sentiment is repeated later in Leviticus 19:31, "Regard not them that have familiar spirits, neither seek after wizards, to be defiled by them: I am the LORD your God."  Exodus 22:18 is very convincing in the tolerance of witches, in which the law demanded, "Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live."  The Lord took these things very seriously, and still does.<br>
        According to Leviticus 19, there is a very real consequence for, even being involved in such things: defilement.  The Hebrew word translated "defiled" is a word that means contamination, in regards to being sexually, religiously, or ceremoniously.   This defilement would affect the spiritual or ceremonial aspect in our lives.  In essence, being involved with the occult or witchcraft,  will very likely hinder our own personal witness endeavors to those that are involved in these practices. In other words, a believer that is involved, whether it be embracing all the traditional practices or just 1, will have a much harder time explaining what the Bible says about separation from these things, (because he/she compromises and does not separate themselves) then if a believer who has completely separated themselves from these practices. <br>
            Finally, in Deuteronomy 18:12 "For all that do these things are an abomination unto the LORD: and because of these abominations the LORD thy God doth drive them out from before thee." The act of how the Lord drove out these abominations, is not too clear in this passage.<br>
            There is only 1 instance I can think of in the old testament in which it is clear <i>how </i>the Lord drove out an evil spirit, and this was through music.  In 1 Samuel 16:23 "And it came to pass, when the evil spirit from God was upon Saul, that David took an harp, and played with his hand: so Saul was refreshed, and was well, and the evil spirit departed from him." (To learn more about music and it's Biblical role, visit <a href="http://biblicalworshipstudy.blogspot.com/?m=1">here</a> .)<br>
         There are a few chapters in the new testament dedicated to the subject of Christian liberty, or a Christian involving themselves with something that offends neither them nor God.  According to the Bible, regarding these things is an abomination unto the LORD.   In the new testament, these abominations, along with all fleshly abominations, have been driven out or, more specifically, crucified at the cross of Christ.          <br>
         Witchcraft is a very real existence,  even today.  Paul indicates this for us in Galatians 5 when he states witchcraft as a work of the flesh.  Another clear passage is found in 1 Thessalonians chapter 5. "Abstain from all appearance of evil."  Because this is a day dedicated to evil and the dark mysteries of the spirit world,  this should be a very clear command.  Paul also writes to the believers at Corinth, in 1 Corinthians 10:20-21</p>
<p dir="ltr">          "But I say, that the things which the Gentiles sacrifice, they sacrifice to devils, and not to God: and I would not that ye should have fellowship with devils. 21 Ye cannot drink the cup of the Lord, and the cup of devils: ye cannot be partakers of the Lord's table, and of the table of devils."  According to this passage, it is a contradiction for a believer to participate, or to even be involved with such things.</p>
<p dir="ltr">        Finally, Ephesians 6:12 is clear in the premise of the Christian's battle grounds and halloween is considered by wiccans to be 1 of their 2 high and holy days during the year. </p>
<p dir="ltr">"For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."</p>
<p dir="ltr">It is no coincidence that Ephesians 6:12 states the Christian battle to be spiritual.</p>
<p dir="ltr">"For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in HIGH places."</p>
<p dir="ltr">          The verses to follow in 13-17 describe for us the armour in which to defend against this  spiritual wickedness.  Only by the Grace of God will His children be able to stand firm on His truth.  I pray that this post helps to bring Christians to a concrete conviction on these matters.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">1 Corinthians 10:12 "Wherefore let him that thinketh he standeth, take heed lest he fall."</p>
<p dir="ltr">James 1:5 "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him."</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-49775450492639360672015-08-08T23:40:00.001-07:002015-08-12T05:36:56.190-07:00Evangelizing or Proselytizing<p dir="ltr">         Similar to the "Redeeming the Time" posts, there is a distinction to be made in <i>how</i> to witness, to evangelize or proselytize.  <br>
         Biblically speaking, evangelist is found in the Scriptures,  where proselytizing, or any form of the word, is no where to be found, so what's the difference between these two methods? </p>
<p dir="ltr">Here is the meaning and origin of the word evangelist:</p>
<p dir="ltr">G2099</p>
<p dir="ltr">Original: εὐαγγελιστής</p>
<p dir="ltr">Transliteration: euaggelistēs</p>
<p dir="ltr">Phonetic: yoo-ang-ghel-is-tace'</p>
<p dir="ltr">Thayer Definition:</p>
<p dir="ltr">a bringer of good tidings, an evangelist<br>
the name given to the NT heralds of salvation through Christ who are not apostles<br>
Origin: from G2097</p>
<p dir="ltr">TDNT entry: 14:16,3</p>
<p dir="ltr">Part(s) of speech: Noun Masculine</p>
<p dir="ltr">Strong's Definition: From G2097; a preacher of the gospel: - evangelist.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Because proselytize is not found anywhere in the Bible, here is the etymology and definition from an online source:</p>
<p dir="ltr">The word proselytize comes from the Greek language and the etymology or the "true sense" of it means converting someone into one's very own path or way of life.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Proselytizing says that this is truth and I don't care what you think, you need to accept it and seems to have a more forceful connotation in trying to convert or somehow trying to <i>make</i> the person believe the truth and also seems to leave out the free will of man, when evangelizing is basically the act of heralding.  Evangelizing says that this is the truth and it's up to you whether you accept it.  The evangelist realizes that the final decision of whether or not a person believes is between them and the Lord and they don't have anything to do with that, and can't control that heart decision.   <br>
       However,  a lot of Christians seem to have a mindset that <i>they</i> hold the truth and with that seems to come a mindset of proselytizing. We're still human and have a sin nature, <u>but</u> God's word is perfect and only God's Word can change the heart of man.<br>
       I've known pastors that will prepare a message and then tell me that they are re-thinking it simply because they don't want to "go over the people's heads."  That thought is, not only arrogant, but statements like they "need to hear it" is along the lines of proselytizing, especially if that message is not exactly what God's Word says.<br>
Whether the truth of the Bible being evangelized is directed towards an established church or towards an unbelieving group of VBS kids, it is God's Word that will have the effect.  <br>
     The truth of God is found in scripture.  There's a power in God's Word that is inexplicable and we can explain it in the most eloquent and clear way, but when the actual words are read by a person, it seems to have a supernatural effect. And rightly so since it is God's Word. </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-35313779303339996912015-08-08T13:31:00.001-07:002017-03-01T17:38:53.428-08:00Redeeming the time part 2<p dir="ltr">          My previous post was left stating that in Colossians 4:6, believers are exhorted to be tactful in their witnessing.  Every situation is different, however some situations can obviously dictate certain scripture verses or direction of conversation, but ultimately, all these things will be led by the Lord.  As good stewards of the truth of reconciliation, we as believers need to think before we speak that truth, (James 1:19) so we do not unnecessarily close that door. <br>
           Being tactful in witnessing is, not only wise to keeping opportunities open and is biblical, but also helps maintain a good testimony before others.  For example: Christian A might be convinced that "redeeming the time" means that <i>every</i> time they have a conversation with an unbeliever, they need to push the love of Christ and force the direction of the conversation.  I know Christians that are convinced of this, but then complain when the unbeliever cuts them off or distances that relationship.  That relationship is now limited and the opportunity for witness to that person is at least hindered, if not ruined.<br>
           On the other hand, Christian B is convinced that "redeeming the time" and the "how" need to be utilized at the same time.  The Lord is sovereign over all and is very capable of directing conversations and situations.   Maintaining a good testimony before others is vital to witnessing.   It shows others a kind of patience that can only come from the love of God, although they may not realize that at first.  In time, and perhaps in their personal reflective times, that may be a factor in their salvation.  People also do not like to be pushed into a decision and have information thrown at them.  Once the unbeliever knows that we are always willing to talk, letting them start the conversations will be much more effective in the long run.  When people know they are being treated with dignity, that simple and basic privilege of letting them make their own decision and being given the time they need to get to whatever that conclusion is, goes a long way and is a huge sign of respect.   <br>
         </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-9753359141367992872015-06-13T16:29:00.001-07:002017-03-01T17:37:26.570-08:00Redeeming the time<p dir="ltr"><br>
In Ephesians, is the warning and the encouragement to be " Redeeming the time, because the days are evil."  This word redeeming in the Greek has the idea of ceasing opportunity for good.  As was said in my previous post, prayer is true evangelism and seeing an opportunity to share the love of Christ involves praying for wisdom and discernment as is exhorted in James 1:5</p>
<p dir="ltr">Quoting Romans 8:28a ("And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God")<br>
at a funeral, perhaps, as true and encouraging this is, may not be the best opportunity to reiterate.   </p>
<p dir="ltr">Some Christians see that it's more advantageous to sieze every opportunity,  regardless of the context in which the truth of God is presented.  This may be dangerous.  When Christians present the truth about God's love, or any truth about God, the presentation should be in accordance with God's character.  Back to our funeral example.  That verse is an everlasting, encouraging truth about God and promise to his children. Those who are dealing with immense pain and suffering that will last a very long time, upon hearing that, will most likely "write you off" or at least limit their interactions with you and future opportunities to minister will be lost.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Colossians 4:6 " Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man."</p>
<p dir="ltr">This command in Colossians is very indicative of that parental advice you got as a child.  "If you don't have anything good to say, don't say it."  Though very good and Biblical advice, it only refers to the first part of this verse.  The first half of this verse, along with "redeeming the time" above, is no small feat and needs the watchful and prayerful discernment which can only be sought from the Lord.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">Everyday, there is a slew of reasons for believers to get angered or stressed. (causing a temporary loss of sober thinking).  Adding to all this is the word <i>how</i> in Colossians 4:6.  This tells believers that their is tactfulness involved in knowing what to say and when to say it.  Siezing every opportunity for the glory of God is needful and effective, when the situation allows.  (to be continued....)</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-6768913537430442282015-06-13T07:59:00.001-07:002015-06-13T16:32:02.730-07:00Mission-minded<p dir="ltr">How often have you seen someone “stay on track” until college, or twenties, and then "go off the deep end"? Christian faith seems to have all but disappeared and they seem to be embracing their new found “freedom.”</p>
<p dir="ltr">Sadly, I’ve seen that exact scenario happen over and over and over again.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Somewhere along the way we, as Christians, may have missed the point of why we do what we do.</p>
<p dir="ltr">To some, the Christian life has become a list of rules containing do’s and don’ts, and sadly we’ve left our Savior completely out of the picture.</p>
<p dir="ltr">A lot of people view Christianity as restraining them from the “real” fun.</p>
<p dir="ltr">They view Christianity as a list looking something like this…</p>
<p dir="ltr">Don’t have sex until you are married.<br>
Don’t watch bad movies.<br>
Don’t have boyfriend/girlfriend until you are ready to get married.<br>
Don’t curse.<br>
Don’t lie.<br>
Don’t cheat.<br>
Don’t steal.<br>
Don’t drink.<br>
Don’t, don’t, don’t.<br>
The list of don’ts continues on and on and many of us have no idea exactly why we shouldn’t do those things. Much less a real heart conviction on our own.</p>
<p dir="ltr">That list of don’ts is an excellent list containing some excellent advice. That is if it’s viewed from the right perspective. If it’s not viewed from the right perspective, Christianity is nothing more than a rule book with checkboxes to mark off and good works to fulfill.  There are very good and Biblical reasons to avoid all of the above, and a Christian should avoid those things.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Over the years, I have come to understand the “why” behind the do’s and don’ts.</p>
<p dir="ltr">In Matthew, part of Jesus' great commission is to go out into all the world and lead others to Christ.   I have also learned that true evangelism is not always "doing", but praying.  Praying for opportunities to witness to people and praying for God to be working in the hearts of everyone we meet, even before we share the gospel.  Later on in the Bible, Paul states that "To the weak became I as weak, that I might gain the weak: I am made all things to all men, that I might by all means save some.  And this I do for the gospel's sake, that I might be partaker thereof with you."</p>
<p dir="ltr">Not all things a Christian does is rightly percieved.  Some believers are trying to minister to others, yet they have been "written off" by others or perhaps Christians take up a hobby that doesn't seem right to their Christian friends, but are then seen as "gone off the deep end".</p>
<p dir="ltr">Being mission minded is being made aware of the ultimate mission and goal, making Christ known. </p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-89091915571017291352015-06-06T09:36:00.001-07:002015-07-26T17:53:11.209-07:00Resting in the Sovereignty of God<p dir="ltr">          So often, we get caught up in the busy-ness of ourselves.  If we aren't caught up in ourselves, it may be ministry or simply getting our life in "order".  It seems we're busy with anything <i>but</i> God and <i>resting</i> in our relationship with Him.  Oswald chambers said:</p>
<p dir="ltr">          "It is never do, do, with the Lord, but be, be and He will do through you."</p>
<p dir="ltr">           There are always times a believer needs to rest in our relationship with God, but more specifically,  in times of busy-ness and times of discouragement. </p>
<p dir="ltr">          Usually, there is an apathy that accompanies our busy-ness, whether it be in ministry or self.  Being busy in the ministry is, of course needful, but at the same time, it is needful to rest in the knowledge that God will grow a ministry or work through a ministry, in His time and according to His will.  Sometimes we put too much pressure on ourselves to get the results in ministry that we think should be there.  In our thinking, when that doesn't happen,  we logically conclude that we have to do more, because obviously what we're doing isn't enough, instead of resti<i>ng</i> in the truth that God is sovereign.  Always has been, still is, and always will be.  We are commanded to be good and faithful stewards,  however, being busy can sort of blind us from resting and to "be still and know".  We are only human and have to remember that our bodies need rest and replenishment. But much more important than that is to <i>rest</i> in the sovereignty of Almighty God, to do what He will, in His time, and being led by Him. Too much activity, or "do, do" as Oswald Chambers said,  can and eventually will burn us out.  In Exodus 18 and specifically verses 17-23, Jethro advises his son in law to not do so much.  The context is that Moses was trying to be a mediator between the people and God, but the point is that he placed too much responsibility on himself.  Verse 18 is probably a key verse for this context.  Jethro tells Moses, "Thou wilt surely wear away, both thou, and this people that is with thee: for this thing is too heavy for thee; thou art not able to perform it thyself alone."  God is sovereign over the results of a ministry and also will guide and lead in the amount of activity.   To rest in the sovereignty of God also assures to prevent burning out (otherwise we won't be of use to God). </p>
<p dir="ltr">           It is also human nature to think we need to better our<i> </i>lives.  It's human nature to create our own happiness in life, mainly by doing what our flesh enjoys.  Wherever a believer is in this life is right where the Lord wants them, whether it is fully surrendered over to God or in a season of backsliding.   God is still sovereign regardless of what we may think about ourselves, lives, or our current state.   Resting in the sovereignty of God brings with it an inexplicable peace and comfort.    The Lord is sovereign over the timing of everything in the believers life.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">            In 2 Corinthians 4:8, Paul says that "We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;".  </p>
<p dir="ltr">           The passage that comes to mind is in Acts 16 where Paul and Silas are wrongfully imprisoned.   Their circumstances were, quite literally,  discouraging, both physically and mentally, I'm sure.  Verse 25 states that they were singing praise to God, and praying<i>,</i> <i>at midnight,</i> (probably a time when, physiologically and mentally,  they would be the weakest.)  In other words, these men were <i>resting</i> in God's sovereignty, giving them an inexplicable peace and comfort.   It's definitely hard to imagine that situation,  but no situation is dire enough for the Lord.  </p>
<p dir="ltr"> The Psalmist said "He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings."</p>
Jesse Bouchardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06751295417077824878noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7496032340858549341.post-56197823324094541812015-05-30T15:52:00.001-07:002015-05-30T15:52:24.475-07:00Unity in the bond of Peace<p dir="ltr">Christians can so easily get caught up in the work of the ministry.  Of course there is tons of work to do, but is it right to disregard our testimony to others?<br>
This reminds me of the one another verses throughout the Bible: Receive one another as in Romans 15:7, Admonish one another as in Romans 15:14 and Colossians 3:16 and Submit yourselves one to another as in Ephesians 5:21and I Peter 5:6.  In the midst of all the work of the ministry, it is needful to be reminded of these verses, often. The church is also God's program for this age of Grace, but there seems to be less and less interest in learning what the Bible says or even serving God.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">In Romans 15, God commands us to receive one another.  This is similar to the idea of receiving a gift from someone.   I remember as a kid at Christmas time that I got gifts that I didn't want or like, but because of who it was from, I had to teach myself to receive that gift with thanksgiving.   Everyone that is called by God, whatever role it is, needs to be received (and will always be received by God) or need to receive others.  In other words, all Christians need to receive there fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, disregarding the role in which we are called to serve, either a pastor to the congregants or the congregants to a pastor.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Later on in the same chapter, there is a command to admonish.a. There is a LOT of work LOT that goes into the ministry, both physical activity and spiritual exercises.  The Greek word for admonish is to warn and no one likes to be warned of potential dangers.  It is usually taken as very critical, however, if Biblical, very necessary.  Romans 15:14 speaks of admonishing one another, but Colossians 3:16 is a little more detailed.  God exhorts us to admonish every man, in all wisdom (consistent with Col. 1:28).  Of course, God's Word is where wisdom is found and, specifically,  the fear of the Lord is the beginning of all  wisdom.   Back to Romans 15, which seems to indicate that all  believers are able to admonish a brother or sister, not just dependant on a believers role in ministry.</p>
<p dir="ltr">Lastly,  believers are commanded to submit.  This is hard for anyone, not just believers.   Yes, we are told to submit to others, but when caught up in the work of the ministry,  we want things to be done "our" way.  The busier we are, it seems the more blinded we are of the bigger picture, which of course, is leading to, and teaching others more of, Christ.  Ephesians 5:21 is a powerful verse and reminds us to submit one to another, regardless of our ministry role, in the fear of God.  As was mentioned earlier,  the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, all wisdom.  The Lord will gives us wisfom, even when submitting. Because ultimately,  it is God we are to submit to.  </p>
<p dir="ltr">There is another command found in Ephesians,  the command to endeavor or strive to keep unity.  There is so much involved with keeping unity among believers, especially when working in ministry.  Sometimes Christians overlook some areas of life in order for unity, but  when God's word is in question in a situation, of course we should obey God's Word. For life issues in the lives of our brothers and sisters,  unity is of prime importance.  God has a reason for brothers and sister to strive for peaceful unions.  According to this verse, with peace comes unity and to become a disunity because of life issues, disunity is also in disregard to all points previously mentioned. </p>
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